Have you ever met someone who brings out the worst in you? Someone who just gets under your skin and grates like nails on a chalkboard, or that annoying squeak of a door hinge? Some of us do this unintentionally under well-meaning conditions within our relationships. Things like control, anxiety, fears and limiting beliefs can mask themselves as “checking in”, “just saying hi” or “being friendly.” All the best intentions in the world fall flat if the other person feels we are checking on them or worse, holding on too tight and smothering them. There are ways to get what you want in a loving, happy relationship without nagging, manipulating, coaxing and coercing. After all, don’t we all want to live a happily ever after?
In my experience, learning to trust, and to communicate honestly through words and feelings, are key to a successful relationship. Within any great relationship you will always find that there are 2 people who are willing to listen to the needs and opinions of the other. They have worked on creating wonderful communication where there is genuine talking and listening. The greatest form of communication is often not saying a word but simply listening. I would have to say that even after 47 years, I am still learning things about Bill … and loving it! But I know without a doubt that in every situation or challenge, there is a solution if both choose to listen to the other’s point of view, and if necessary, learn to agree to disagree.
If your heart aches for companionship, for love and an intimate long-term relationship, then ‘The Accomplished Heart’ with Dr. Geraldine Teggelove can help you find and design a loving relationship with a partner that lasts. As you learn to replace anxiety with belief, trust and love yourself, identify what is your heart’s desire, and learn to receive the love that comes to you, your dreams will become a reality. The Accomplished Heart demystifies why relationships are so hard, and why you might find yourself lonely and bored. You become an effective and honest communicator, learn from good role models and get the results you want. Take the first step to loving happiness now!